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By Income Wax, Inc.

Who Are You Attracting?

5 July 2017 By LA Leave a Comment

Like attracts like. What kind of people are you attracting into your circle?

If you’re becoming increasingly frustrated with people, either via social media or in your offline life, chances are you may need to make some adjustments in who you are exposing yourself to. (I still giggle every time I say ‘expose yourself’ – I guess because I’m 12).

Winners attract winners.
Whiners attract whiners.
Positive attracts positive.
Negative attracts negative.
Are you a positive winner? Or a negative whiner?

This topic has been on my mind a lot lately. Positive people practically break out in hives when they’re around whiners. And likewise, negative people don’t want to hang out with Suzy sunshine.

This morning I saw the above Winners attract winners … come through in my LinkedIn feed, posted by one of my local associates. I took it as a sign that I was supposed to blog about it.

What about team members?

difficult team membersBefore you say, “But they’re my upline or my downline, and I have to expose myself to them <giggle snort>.  Well maybe. Maybe not. You are still in the driver’s seat and still have ultimate control which groups you choose to belong to; which people you allow on your team page; and certainly, which people you voluntarily choose to friend, like, or follow on social media. You can absolutely limit exposure if not completely eliminate it.

If they keep emailing you and you choose not to receive their emails, then ask them to remove you from their mailing list. Sometimes it’s not that simple. In Scentsy’s workstation there is a Team or a Group option to email in bulk.  If I had to remove one person from my correspondences to my team, I’d have to manually check everyone I wanted to message, then find the person who doesn’t want to hear from me, make sure I remember to do that, uncheck that person and then send to the rest of the team.

If you have hundreds or thousands on your team and you can only send so many at a time, if you do it manually like that. It would be far too labor intensive and not a good utilization of time. Therefore, it makes much more sense for the person who doesn’t want to hear from you to block, unsubscribe or leave a group.

If you don’t like how you feel when you are around certain people in your life, stop going around those people. Simple. You’ll be amazed how much weight gets lifted from your shoulders when you do.

Positive winners attract positive winners.

See you at the top!

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About the Author: Laurie Ayers is a Superstar Director with Scentsy Wickless Candles. She enjoys helping men and women start and maintain a home-based business in the US, Canada, Mexico, Australia, New Zealand, Puerto Rico, Germany, Ireland, UK, France, Austria and Spain. To download a FREE Start Up Guide which provides more details about how to start a home business as well as to learn about our compensation plan go to www.thrivingcandlebusiness.com/how-to-start-a-candle-business/ 

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