It seems a blinding glimpse of the obvious to say that no two people are alike. Yet it never ceases to amaze me how much we compare ourselves to others; some try so hard to be like everyone else; and in the realm of direct sales, some consultants get upset and sometimes down right rude, because their leader, manager, director is not like some of the other ones they’ve heard about.
I was thinking about this last night. The autumn leaves have just barely given notice that they’re above to change into beautiful colors and then fall. So the fact that I am talking about snowflakes on 13 September is pushing it a bit, though I know of no better analogy.
No two snowflakes are the same. Each has its own unique story and formulation and no two will ever be exactly the same. Sure many have some similar traits and similarities, but you’ll never find two alike, so don’t waste your energy looking for that sameness.
So why is it really an issue for some direct selling consultants that their director isn’t like so-and-so’s director. They get together at meetings, conventions, trainings, etc. and hear from each other how their director does this or that or that he/she doesn’t do this or that, and the consultants feel cheated or upset that “˜they signed up on the wrong team’.
That’s just stinkin’ thinkin’. Be aware that I am not referring to the leaders who don’t deserve the title, the ones who don’t lead by example and have no semblance of leadership qualities. That is an entirely different conversation and best held for a different post. Rather I am merely referring to difference in style and preference.
Some managers are very creative and enjoy constantly creating new flyers, trainings, webinars, trinkets, gifts, packaging, and other do-dads. Some consultants love that about their director. Other consultants consider it needless fuu-fuu. Is it wrong or bad? No, it’s just different.
Other directors are very businesslike and treat their direct sales team more like they’re are running a corporation with shareholders and employees. There isn’t any fuu-fuu, in fact it seems all business all the time. Is that style wrong for a direct sales team? No, it’s just different. Some consultants thrive in that environment and others would rather have a root canal than be on a team like that. [Read more…] about No Two Directors Leaders Managers are the Same